Girls Mentoring & Rites of Passage Program

We acknowledge that this program is held within the ancestral, traditional and unceded territories of the xʷməθkwəy̓əm (Musqueam), Skwxwú7mesh (Squamish), and sel̓íl̓witulh (Tsleil-waututh) Nations. Thank you for your teachings of relationship with this land.


  • a whole community of women supporting your daughter

  • support for the challenging balance as your girl becomes a woman

  • allowing freedom & independence while remaining connected




Fire & Flower is a coming-of-age rite of passage for girls ages 12-14* in the Vancouver area.  This 4-month program will provide a meaningful and wholistic transition into young womanhood through mentorship, ceremony and nature connection.

Rites of passage are community events.  They are created by the community, for the community.  We have an amazing and diverse team of women eager to provide long-term, one-on-one mentorship for the girls.  Together we will create a strong and safe container to explore important topics such as body image, relationships, sexuality, personal fears, etc.

Participants will build confidence and pride in becoming young women, gain valuable friendships, experience an powerful coming-of-age ceremony and have continued individualized mentoring & support during and after the program.

To learn more please explore our website.  And if your question is not answered here please get in touch!

*We accept participants young/older than 12-14 as age does not necessarily determine one’s readiness and fit for coming-of-age. If you believe your daughter is ready, please contact us.